Sandra Bullock isn`t sure she and husband Jesse James will have kids.

"You don`t have to give birth to someone to have a family. I`m not going to spend two seconds of my life wishing I had something I don`t," The Proposal (out June 19) actress, 44, tells the June issue of Harper`s Bazaar.
It`s hard to do it your way when you hear everyone else telling you to do it their way," she continues. "I just want people to admit that there`s no one way to live your life.

But that doesn`t mean she won`t change her mind later.

"Of course, I don`t know what`s going to happen," she says.

Bullock married James, the CEO of West Coast Choppers and host of Motorcycle Mania, in July 2005. She`s had to adjust to letting him take care of her.
I`ve had to learn a hard lesson in that I`m not allowed to open car doors anymore," she says. "It was so hard for me to allow someone to take care of me. It`s not because I can`t take care of myself. But Jesse was like, `Just let me do this.`"

Ever since entering her 40s, she`s let go of a lot of hangups.
"I didn`t have a teenage or early-20s experience that was free and without worry. I missed the screw-everything, have-a-good-time phase," she says. "I was worried that if I didn`t stay on track and work, work, work, I was never going to accomplish anything.

"Now I`m trying to have fun and have the freedom to do nothing," she goes on.

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